Eileen Habelow on Curiosity as a Superpower

The best leaders aren’t the ones with all the answers. They’re the ones still asking questions.

Eileen Habelow, PhD, is the CEO and founder of Leadership-Link and co-founder of Know 2 Grow. With over 30 years of experience improving the performance of people managers, teams, and leaders across more than 110 companies—most in the biotech and pharmaceutical industries—Eileen helps smart professionals build people expertise grounded in empirical research. 

In this episode, Eileen joins Kristen to unpack why curiosity is a leadership superpower and how leaders can model it in the workplace. 

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The Big Idea: Curiosity Is a Superpower for Leader

Eileen explains that curiosity is a superpower, but not in the way most people think about it. To use curiosity effectively as a leader, Eileen argues you have to do three things: shift your mindset, acknowledge the weight of influence you carry, and communicate in a way that demonstrates authentic interest in other people’s perspectives. 

The more expertise and success you accumulate, the easier it is to default to “I already know what I need to know.” Eileen encourages leaders to move past that belief and stay open to the possibility that other ideas and viewpoints can add to what they already know. At the same time, leaders must be honest with themselves about their positional authority—the reason why, when they throw out an idea in a brainstorm, it often lands as a decision, even when they were looking for input.

Finally, when communicating, leaders should ensure the questions they’re asking are not leading questions or “quagestions” (questions that are really a suggestion) but ones they genuinely don’t know the answers to.

"To use curiosity as a superpower, you have to first get over the mindset and the belief that, “I'm good. I know what I need to know.” And that's hard. The more expertise you have, the harder that is."
Eileen Habelow
CEO and founder of Leadership-Link and co-founder of Know 2 Grow.

Key Takeaways

  • The more success and recognition you’ve earned, the harder it becomes to stay open to what you don’t know.   
  • Leaders can benefit from shifting their mindset away from the assumption that their expertise is complete and opening themselves up to learn from others.   
  • When a leader shares an idea, it often lands as a decision rather than a starting point for discussion, even on the most equality-driven teams.   
  • Genuine curiosity means asking questions because you’re authentically interested in the other person’s perspective, not steering them toward your own conclusion.   
  • Many leaders have a performance-driven instinct to solve problems immediately, but often, the better approach is asking questions before offering solutions. 

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